your explanation did nothing to speak to being a dick, did not attempt to apologize, only tried to justify the poor behavior.
your explanation did nothing to speak to being a dick, did not attempt to apologize, only tried to justify the poor behavior.
I'll take critique from other maintainers who have done as much or more open source work for similar returns over similar time periods. Funnily enough, I'm friends with many, and they are supportive the vast majority of the time instead of critical. Maybe that's because they can relate and you cannot.
The fact that you have many friends who confirm your bias of not being a dick...means exactly nothing. You have people telling you your words made them perceive your comment as being arrogant/blunt and your reply is: I'm successful open-source maintainer and have many friends who think I'm not arrogant and I only take critique from them. Have it your way. But in my eyes, you're being a dick. (Don't misinterpret this as my judgement of your engineering skills. I love Homebrew and it's an incredible feat. Congrats.)
Now you're deflecting. I passed no judgement i made an observation of your statement and you took it personally.