The problem here is a tragedy of the commons - the people you describe are avoiding a certain kind of pain (a child who will die early, or who will have a condition that the parent already has) and exchanging it for both
1) the uncertainty that the child will have unknown other issues, either due to the genetic sampling process or due to whatever genetic interventions are made, and
2) the chance that future humans will need to support the changes that the parents have introduced to the human germline
I work in this area of biology, and, as far as the editing tools go, none of these tools are as foolproof as they are described.
I recognize the human sorrow of not being able to have the particular kind of family one always wants, but I feel we forget the significant downside potential to the rest of humanity.
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lastly, regarding trisomy 21 - I have more sympathy around 'repairing' individual single-nucleotide variants and I suspect that it will be attainable at levels nearing perfection in our lifetimes (so error rates below 1E-11 if we want 1% chance of any off-target lesions).
I do not see how this is ever going to happen for trisomy 21 repair - the only realistic possibility is screening to avoid it.