Obviously I’m reasonably willing to believe that you are an exception. However every person I’ve interacted with who makes this same claim has presented me with a dumpster fire and expected me to marvel at it.
That there's a learning curve, especially with a new technology, and that only the people at the forefront of using that technology are getting results with it - that's just a very common pattern. As the technology improves and material about it improves - it becomes more useful to everyone.
In a weird way it sort of reminds me of Common Lisp. When I was younger I thought it was the most beautiful language and a shame that it wasn't more widely adopted. After a few decades in the field I've realized it's probably for the best since the average dev would only use it to create elaborate foot guns.
Destiny visits me on my 18th birthday and says, "Gart, your mediocrity will result in a long series of elaborate foot guns. Be humble. You are warned."
see also: react hooks
All I see in your post is equivalent to something like: you're surrounded by boot camp coders who write the worst garbage you've ever seen, so now you have doubts for anyone who claims they've written some good shit. Psh, yeah right, you mean a mudball like everyone else?
In that scenario there isn't much a skilled software engineer with different experiences can interject because you've already made your decision, and your decision is based on experiences more visceral than anything they can add.
I do sympathize that you've grown impatient with the tools and the output of those around you instead of cracking that nut.
Every time i reach for them recently I end up spending more time refactoring the bad code out or in deep hostage negotiations with the chatbot of the day that I would have been faster writing it myself.
That and for some reason they occasionally make me really angry.
Oh a bunch of prompts in and then it hallucinated some library a dependency isn’t even using and spews a 200 line diff at me, again, great.
Although at least i can swear at them and get them to write me little apology poems..
I keep flipping between this is the end of our careers, to I'm totally safe. So far this is the longest 'totally safe' period I've had since GPT-2 or so came along..