Apple's behavior is not exceptional. It's how every monopolist behaves when they own the market. I dealt with the very same issues when I had my own business selling on eBay.
At the end of the day, when you have to move your product through someone's market, it's not your product, it's not your business, and those aren't your customers.
It's all theirs. Because if you do something they don't like, they will just turn you off ... or worse, they'll call you and tell you to change it.
> There doesn't seem to be anything that openness would have provided him.
It would have provided him the freedom of developing the product he wants, without compromise. It would have allowed him to take his vision directly to his customers. And nobody would be able to get in his way.
> With that said Win8 has a complete desktop mode fully available for tinkering.
Have you tried installing unsigned software on Windows 8? You get a huge window pretty much saying NO. Only after clicking on more info, do you get an option to override. I can only guess what will happen with Windows 9?