IEEE 754 operations are nonassociative, but they are commutative (at least if you ignore the effect of NaN payloads).
As a side note: all compilers I'm aware of make almost no guarantees on preserving the value of NaN payloads, hence they consider floating-point operations to be fully commutative, and there's no general way to guarantee that they evaluate in exactly the order you specified.
You're supposed to do (a+b) to demonstrate the effect, because floating point subtraction that results in a number near zero is sensitive to rounding (worst case, a non-zero number gets you a zero number), which can introduce a huge error when a and b are very similar numbers.
The confusion between associativity and commutativity is the entire point of this thread!