You are talking about low level stuff like syncing to the filesystem; that data is journalled and ensuring atomicity is maintained and I am in actual fact not.

Dislocating DML from the code that triggers it creates many problems around ensuring proper data integrity and it divorces consistent reads of uncommitted data that you may want to tightly control before committing. By punting it to a dedicated writer you're removing the ability to ensure serialised modification of your data and the ability to cleanly react to integrity errors that may arise. If you don't need that? Go ahead. But it's not fud. We build relational acid compliant databases this way for a reason