With pip you update a dependency, it won't work if it's not compatible, it'll work if they are. Not sure where the issue is?
It can get complicated. The resolver in uv is part of its magic.
You include the security patch of whatever your dependencies are into your local vetted pypi repository. You control what you consider liabilities and you don't get shocked by breakages in what should be minor versions.
Of course you have to be able to develop software and not just snap Lego's together to manage a setup like that. Which is why uv is so popular.
Sensible defaults would completely sidestep this, that's the popularity of uv. Or you can be an ass to people online to feel superior, which I'm sure really helps.
Inevitably, these versions are out-of-date. Sometimes, they are very, very out of date. "Sorry, I can only install [version from 5 years ago.]" is always great for productivity.
I ran into this recently with a third-party. You'd think a 5 year old version would trigger alarm bells...
But when you're developing software, you want the newer stuff. Would you use MySQL 5.0 from 2005? No, you'd be out of your mind.
This is very new behavior in pip. Not so long ago, imagine this:
You `pip install foo` which depends on `bar==1.0`. It installs both of those packages. Now you install `pip install baz` which depends on `bar==2.0`. It installs baz, and updates bar to 2.0. Better hope foo's compatible with the newer version!
I think pip only changed in the last year or two to resolve conflicts, or die noisily explaining why it couldn't be done.
Which makes you part of the people the GP is referring to? Try using it anger for a week, you'll come to understand.
It's like Sisyphus rolling a cube up a hill and being offered a sphere instead: "no thanks, I just push harder when I have to overcome the edges."
As far as I know, files like requirements.txt, package.json, cargo.toml are intended to be used as a snapshot of the dependencies in your project.
In case you need to update dependency A that also affects dependency B and C, I am not sure how one tool is better than other.
cargo can also update transitive dependencies (you need `--locked` to prevent that).
Ruby's Bundler does not, which is preferred and is the only correct default behaviour. Elixir's mix does not.
I don't know whether uv handles transitive dependencies correctly, but lockfiles should be absolute and strict for reproducible builds. Regardless, uv is an absolute breath of fresh air for this frequent Python tourist.
(It also removed all untracked dependencies in node_modules, which you should also never have unless you've done something weird.)
I switched to pnpm as my preferred package manager a couple of years ago because of this, and even that still requires explicit specification.
It was an unpleasant surprise, to say the least.