With the information you're giving, my decision would probably be to take the non-clip TC2030 or TC2050 (I've never needed 14 pins) footprint and overlay the footprint for a regular 1.27mm SMD connector on top of it. Cortex debug connector should be a good fit but I haven't checked.

That seems to be the "get your cake and eat it" (though it does mean you're spending the space and drilling the holes for TC.) But still -

> They're fine for one guy using them on the bench