Yes.
(And I say that as a Democrat in California)
(And I say that as a Democrat in California)
There's very little loyalty, there's some truth to the party being a bunch of minorities nervously huddled around the DNC for warmth.
Their mental model of the "other side" is someone who is similarly team-driven.
These folks get really confused when "whatabout your team?" falls flat on people who want to live by principles or morality, rather than hat color.
I think it's best not to engage. These people aren't here for logical arguments, and they won't be persuaded by logic.