What did your internal discussion conclude for the question "Why did we not take a step back earlier and think, why are we doing it this way?"

Im genuinely curious because this is not singling out your team or org, this is a very common occurrence among modern engineering teams, and I've often found myself on the losing end of such arguments. So I am all ears to hear at least one such team telling what goes on in their mind when they make terrible architecture decisions and if they learned anything philosophical that would prevent a repeat.