First, shame on you and yours for asking people to rat on other people. Do you understand what could happen in the real world?
Next, I am a little sick of this "real name" business since Facebook and Google get it so wrong. I will give a couple of examples.
I grew up on a reservation in the US. Several of my friends have been given "Indian Names". Is that their real name or would Google / Facebook say that it's not valid because it is not a state issued ID. Is Google/Facebook combing the cultures of the world to pick out what they believe?
I do sysadmin work. Several people are named the same as parents / grandparents, but are known by other names. I use what people call them for their accounts not their official id. I would say I am right and have a better grasp of what their name is then someone who only uses official ID. Heck, would Google/Facebook take a tribal ID?
The cases of people trying to get away from a bad situation where Facebook / Google basically provides a target, not a safe place, are too numerous to iterate.
It isn't about the people using Facebook / Google. It is about your customers: the advertisers.