> talent doesn’t feel like you’re amazing. It feels like the difficulties that trouble others are mysteriously absent in your case

There's a problem: money.

If you have lots of it, you have less difficulties than others in many, many areas. Things go easier for you.

Also, money has nothing to do with being good at something. You might have inherited it, or won the lottery, or stolen it.

Perks of being wealthy that you take for granted and might not even notice could be offering you tremendous advantages compared to less resourceful peers.