The thing that I like about this post is that it touches on many of the difficulties of running a homelab with many physical hosts. You might not need all or most of this setup, but at least you have an idea of how this particular design (a decent one!) scales after reading this.
- Array of off-the-shell compute servers with console access + networking + power
- ArgoCD + GitOps makes a K8 cluster declarative
- Talos makes the physical hosts that provide the K8 cluster be declarative
- Dedicated machines for storage, Control Plan, and Networking isolate the infrequently-changing stateful parts
This homelab does seem compute focused, which might be right for OP but is normally a mistake that people make when they build their first homelab. I'm wondering what OP's home internet bandwidth is. It seems odd to have so much compute behind a network bottleneck unless OP has high-compute-small-output workloads (ml training, data searching/analysis, NOT video encoding)
A single machine with a lot of CPU and a LOT of memory/storage is typically what people want---so that projects they're setting up are fast and having lots of old/idling projects is fine. My old recommendation was a mini-ITX with 128 GB of ram and a modern AMD cpu should take most people very far. Perhaps a smaller NUC/Beelink computer if you're not storage hungry.
However, keep in mind that a single machine will make it hard to tinker with large parts of the stack. It's harder to play with kernel mod settings if you need to constantly reboot all your projects and possibly nuke your lab. It's harder to test podman vs docker if in involves turning off all your contains. A more complicated home-lab gives you more surface area to tinker with. That's both more fun and makes you a better engineer. Of course, you can get most of this experience for far less money if you budget isn't quite as generous.
I personally prefer a digital nomad aesthetic, so I focus on small & simple on-prem hosts paired with cloud stacks. I'm willing to pay a premium on compute to have less commitment and physical footprint. I've been considering setting up a K8 cluster on Hetzner dedicated machines. In my case, that Mini-ITX box is actually a storage-optimized ATX build for backing up my laptop (daily-driver) and media server.