There is a risk premium but this premium can be positive or negative. It has been negative in many countries, do you suggest they ban stocks?
I don't think stocks are the same thing as gambling btw. But it is significantly more complex in that they overlap, some financial products clearly exist in the US because gambling was illegal. A sports bet is clearly not an investment, but neither is a ODTE option. Both are entertainment, the former probably more logically so than the latter, I am not sure what appeal that latter can have other than to gambling addicts.
Besides that, there's also the perspective that options help stabilize the market via hedging.
I am also not sure what you are saying. The return on the average stock is negative, it is a empirical fact.
You should only use options as a way to make some extra money for actions you might have taken anyway, such as buying/selling a stock at a certain price.
Use a respectable platform that doesn't do that then.
*there are small gas fees for sending transactions on the blockchain