Sometimes when people speak rhetorically I'm baffled because I feel they literally do not understand what they're saying because they end up supporting an opposing rhetorical purpose. Yes you're 100% correct well-structured commits are a luxury that most of us do not have the privilege of experiencing because we work in high-pressure, deadlines driven environments where no points are awarded for beautifully crafted commit messages.
So in effect your argument is like "people that haven't had the luxury of a Michelin star restaurant don't appreciate amuse bouche and they should strive to rectify that".