Plus, the innocent partner is now inheriting the debt, because that is how divorces work.
The defenders of predatory industries that threw huge money on A/B tests about how take advantage of people blaming everyone else are getting tired out.
So then should we ban anything that causes one of these things?
Anything is too strong, but everytime something is a cause we should look at that option along with others. I'm against divorce - but marriage to someone who is abusive is even worse and so I'm forced to allow for divorce despite being against it. There are many many other things in life that are far more complex (even my example is far more complex, but you wouldn't read the 100 volume books if I wrote it - I don't even have time to think about all the details that would need to be in it)