Realistically, everyone online is constantly complaining about the lack of friends, the lack of community, and so on. Meanwhile, I live in a high rise in SF and have no shortage of any of these.

People borrow spoons of yogurt, tools, devices; share parenting, food, and home advice; and there's a bunch who play board games and the like.

My friends are nearby. We go to the gym together, play basketball together, go to the same kids' birthday parties.

This is very obviously a "smell shit everywhere you go" situation.