The point of memory-safe languages is to foreclose on a set of particularly nasty bugs, regardless of how frayed engineer morale is.
The borrow checker is something new Rust devs struggle with for a couple months, as they learn, then the rules are internalized and the code gets written just like any other language. I think new devs only struggle with the borrow checker because everyone has internalized the C memory model for the last 50 years. In another 50, everyone will be unlearning Rust for whatever replaces it.