And the boring lecturer is doing it wrong too - wasting your time and money and everyone else's! Be an adult and take matters into your own hands.
And the boring lecturer is doing it wrong too - wasting your time and money and everyone else's! Be an adult and take matters into your own hands.
Furthermore, I know that shitting on universities is en vogue, but give me a break. Perhaps you are the one who "did it wrong" and were bored because you chose the wrong university, or the wrong field of study? Or, just maybe, different people learn in different ways?
And yes, "freaking out" was the wrong way to phrase "so overly concerned/bored that writing a blog post about the issue was necessary".
It all sort of operates on the idea that you're actually a nice person, capable of behaving reasonably, and discussing things like an adult (or how we believe adults should discuss things even though this is rarely the case). The idea is to ensure the other person wants to return to what they made, and it's enough for one person to treat the work poorly (perhaps in showing they don't care by focusing on their phone) to bother someone, especially newcomers to workshops.
This is probably where some communication skills would come in hand. I have no problem with a quick "Hey, nilium, can we please just get this done?" or "Your hot date can wait for you text".
Granted, I've also been very lucky in having self motivated or self chosen teammates for most of my university group work.