You think most developers in the US were located “in the Bay Area”, went to
Berkeley , and spent a career doing open source work in computational science and you call my experience “anecdotal”?
Most developers from the beginning worked at banks, government, defense etc doing boring enterprise work. That has always been the case.
They weren’t doing “research” writing COBOL for banks and the government.
In 30 years, I’ve worked at 10 jobs for startups, boring big enterprise companies, BigTech and I’ve been working in consulting (3 of those were working full time in AWS’s consulting department) for five years working with developers from startups, enterprises and government.
I think my exposure to a wide swath of the industry is a little bit more than working in California for 30 years…
Even when I was younger and single, all of us would hang out after work - males and females and go to the bar, the club, the strip club (yes the women too - it was their idea they were mostly BAs and one programmer), and just really enjoy the money we were making. We were all making $50K-$80K back when you could easily get a house built in the burbs for $150k-$170K.
Even as I got older, and change jobs in my mid 30s, by then my coworkers were mostly involved with other hobbies and our families. We weren’t even thinking about computers after work.