The internet has been like this forever. In the 90s I was banned from hotmail for having an inappropriate email address because my last name is Cummings. No recourse for some idiotic regex filter.
I wonder what would have to happen for people to become more digitally sovereign, but I doubt it'll ever happen. If anything, we're going in the other direction.
Humans have issues with such tasks, too, apparently. Hence their push to change IT terminology, e.g. master -> main git branch.
Or perhaps in the quaint fishing town of Dildo, Newfoundland.