Atomic bond types discernible in images
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"hexagonal bonds of carbon atoms"
No. Maybe I'm just having an issue with the terminology, but those hexagonal shapes are not the "bonds" like the ones we'd draw for a molecular shape in chemistry class. That's just where the orbiting electrons squeeze between the nuclei. You get these bright lines because electrons' orbital paths are concentrated in these areas.
The size you are thinking of is the size of the strong force of the nucleus - a lot smaller.
Atomic particles don't actually have a size - at all. They are entirely empty space. The only "size" you can define for them is the size of the forces that act on them, but then you have to say which force you are talking about.
Electromagnetic force, strong force, weak force, gravity and quark force (gluons), are your choices.
Note that some forces have a distinct "edge", others just peter out - so there is no real good way of defining the size. Gravity is especially interesting, because measured by that force objects are huge. But of course gravity has no edge, so how do you define size?
Probably the best definition for forces without distinct edges is where does the signal from the force get lost among the noise from other objects? (For example, the other atoms in a molecule.) That's what you see here - each atom is visible until the next atom near it is closer.
I remember thinking how the double bonds looked like the plastic plug-together model that I had for chemistry class.