There are (at least) two Youtube channels, Ray Delahanty | CityNerd and Not Just Bikes, that really drive home the point in their videos that car-centric cities really stink.
The Netherlands is lauded as a model, but it took them decades to get where they are today. This isn't to say that we can't do it in the US or Asia or anywhere else, but that we should be clear-eyed about the magnitude of the challenge.
Long story short: change is possible, but rarely easy. Even in places where it seems like things have always been like they are now.
https://www.youtube.com/@ClimateTown
https://www.youtube.com/@OhTheUrbanity
https://www.youtube.com/@CityBeautiful
more bike oriented, but that often overlaps with city planning and design: