Tell me about it. It happens so often that I am very reluctant to leave comments now, especially on topics that I know people have already made up their mind and are not willing to discuss it with an open mind. That said, I did just leave a comment about something I probably should not have, but oh well.
Is it really Clojure that uses BEAM? I thought it was a JVM-based language, I would have to look this up.
BTW OCaml finally has multicore support, which was a long time coming.
As for GC, you might find OxCaml interesting or to your liking: https://oxcaml.org/[1].
[1] Especially this part: "OxCaml gives programmers tools to control allocations, reducing GC pressure and making programs more cache efficient and deterministic.".