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Totally. The point is, this guy who's mission I dedicated a good portion of life to clearly doesn't think about me at all after the fact. I'm sure he's gratefuland values me. But if I was part of his story he'd remember my name.

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As someone who's just terrible with names, I hate that this is how people interpret it. There are plenty of people who have had a big impact on my life whose names have slipped - and, plenty of inconsequential people whose names stuck for no good reason. It has very little to do with how much that person mattered to me.

Not saying your overall point doesn't stand, but at least for some people remembering a name isn't a consistent indicator of their impact.

same here, names and dates elude me. I can't even remember some of family names and dates, can't remember almost any of the schoolmates names, let alone surnames, but I do remember conversations, moments together etc.

It sounds like you overall had a positive experience grinding though, and just because he didn't remember your name you'd say that you regret it?

I think he should have remembered your name, but he hadn't forgotten you. Who knows why he forgot your name.

I don't personally have any regrets, because I'm that kinda person. But there are people who prioritized travel, dating, health and personal experiences who have better stories from that period than I do knocking out bugs or shipping a feature that no one ever used. I bought into the mission of the founder. Sure he remembered me when he saw me, but I doubt he thought of me once in the period in between. I remember feeling pretty disappointed after that encounter. Like I bought in, put in the work, it didn't work out and the guy that I followed didn't even remember my name. Prior to that encounter I shared that experience as a badge of honor. After reading this thread and posting here I can't help but think what a waste of time...

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