I also just think it’s a necessary evil of big systems. Sometimes you need derived data. You can even think about databases as a kind of cache: the “real” data is the stream of every event that ever updated data in the database! (Yes this stretching the meaning of cache lol)
However I agree that caching is often an easy bandaid for a bad architecture.
This talk on Apache Samza completely changed how I think about caching and derived data in general: https://youtu.be/fU9hR3kiOK0?si=t9IhfPtCsSyszscf
And this interview has some interesting insights on the problems that caching faces at super large scale systems (twitter specifically): https://softwareengineeringdaily.com/2023/01/12/caching-at-t...