In a place where abortion was legal, I expect having sex ed would not significantly affect fertility rate but would decrease abortion rate.
Knowing about your body and having access to contraceptives should in my opinion promote the frequency of sex.
But the other part sounds fun, so, why wouldn't learning about that encourage you? If you've done a decent sex ed course then a whole lot of fun possibilities are showcased, even if you think some of them are gross the others seem intriguing enough that I'd expect more rather than less will be interested in trying.
I'm just saying that observationally, traditional societies and sub-societies with worse sex ed that are less "sexually enlightened" tend to have more sex and fertility. Maybe it has something to do with breaking taboo?