Many things need to be run and automated when running stuff, I don't understand what makes SSL certificates special in this.
For a hobbyist, setting up certbot or acme.sh is pretty much fire and forget. For more complex settings well… you already have this complexity to manage and therefore the people managing this complexity.
You'll need to pick a client and approve it, sure, but that's once, and that's true for any tool you already use. (edit: and nginx is getting ACME support, so you might already be using this tool)
It's not the first time I encounter them, but I really don't get the complaints. Sure, the setup may take longer. But the day to day operations are then easier.