Religious history is hardly peaceful. Nobody seems to bring the hate as efficiently as the religious at times.
I remember religion growing up challenging you to give to others and care for them, even more so when you might not want to / for others who are different. But when religion has power? That doesn't seem to be the case.
The religion I see at work day to day seems far more negative, and I really don't see much objection by others who are religious, not on a religious basis.
Unfortunately what you're identifying here is the effects of unchained capitalism which demands more and more while returning less and less, as it's core function. It is fundamentally unsustainable and the effects you're highlighting here (fracturing of family, fracturing of community) is the result of that pressure.