We humans are in huge misalignment. Obviously at the macro political scale. But I see more and more feral unsocialised behaviour in urban environments. Obviously social media is a big factor. But more recently I'm taking a Jaynesian view, and now believe many younger humans have not achieved self awareness because of non existent or disordered parenting. And no direct awareness of own thoughts. So how can they possibly have empathy? Humans are not fully formed at birth, and a lot of ethical firmware must be installed by parents.