You know which one.
Ditto for power adapters. Every laptop now uses USB-C instead of weird barrel plugs.
Unicode was invented by Xerox and Apple employees. USB-C was developed "by Intel, HP Inc., Microsoft, and the USB Implementers Forum."
To be clear, it's not about the huge companies, it's about the people doing the heavy implementation work. They can change 14 standards into 1. And in most cases - with rare exceptions - only they can do that.
This is not (really) a technical problem. It's a cultural one—getting people to actually make hyperspecific micro feeds available.
This is the tricky bit thou and will come down to chicken and egg problem of adopting some convention
Dedicate a portion of your site to notifications. Allocate the URL there with a blank page that has a meta 404 tag or something.
When blog post is live, replace the meta 404 with a meta redirect to the real permalink.
You can do an all-manual URL shortener for QR codes the same way. That means you can also have a QR code for this kind of subscription, which is cool
Anyways the convention isn’t too hard it’s the adoption by authors and software that will be tricky
Sure, there needs to be a standard for this, but it could be as simple as using a new rel value, say, “futurecontent”, and title (when used with <link>) or content (when used with <a>) giving the description of what will be found at the link when it is ready.
"Technically possible" and "likely to work well" are two different things.