I'd drop the HOA first, I sure as _hell_ don't need one of those.
Other than that many HOAs exist to fund the lawsuit against the developer for 20 years. <- this part was just a joke
I guess i’m thinking of a condo HOA. Maybe some of that is less relevant in a neighborhood with single family homes?
I do agree some HOAs are awful. But many actually help keep a place from looking shitty and from collapsing like the condo tower in florida a few years ago.
Personally, I think the only thing worse than bad neighbors is any neighbors pretending they're lawyers.