(I am mostly joking but also crying inside because Seattle prices are also insane)
I cannot live in Ukraine because they will send me to war if I go there.
I got lucky a couple of times, so this won't work for everyone. But working a "real" job to fund your passion projects is as old as DaVinci taking commissions to fund his research.
I spend a very disproportionate amount of my mental energy on my job, and I think earning a lot of money would not properly compensate for that. Energy is finite and life has a way of being just about as expensive as the money you have.
So, maybe it's fine that it will take me 30 years to earn what these people will in 2.
Also allows you to do your hobby without other pressures placed on it.
A) Find a way to work in OpenAI before I knew there'd be a $1.5M bonus for working there for a couple years
B) Find a way to avoid taxes
C) Do this twice before I'd get my 28 years back
D) Ensure I don't let my expenses grow
The first is mostly luck, as Jim Carey said about his dad: You can fail at what you don't want to do.