I can speak this as someone who is also behind because life…
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44377380P
There is no secret. I’m 51 and the math says I won’t be able to retire until the earliest when I’m 66.5 and my wife turns 65 and probably won’t retire until I’m 68.5 and my wife turns 67. Since she will be claiming spousal social security (50% of mine) and that’s when hers doesn’t get any larger by waiting.
That’s with my projecting maxing out my 401K + catchup contributions + in a couple + in two years after another obligation falls off maxing out a Roth.
Don’t cry for me. I work remotely, we travel extensively and do the digital nomad thing sporadically. Like next year we are going to Costa Rica for a month and half in the winter and travel domestically in the summer. We live in a unit of a condotel we own and it gets rented out when we aren’t at home to cover the market.
The way I see it, no need to wait until retirement to travel and by the time I do, we will be doing longer stays in Costa Rica, Panama City, etc
I’m not rich, and I make around $200K as a staff consultant working at a third party cloud consulting company.
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44162993
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=44159562