I appreciate what you said, but I think my point stands.

In my initial post, I pointed out how men are seen as failures with respect to how they fail to meet the standards of women.

In your response you talk about how women perpetuate negativity onto themselves. You also point out how women can fall victim to systemic negativity in society. However, you didn't say anything of the responsibility that women have to men to make things work (in the same way that you pointed how men fail to meet the standards of women). That's the point.