Calling it "extremely idiosyncratic" is not indicative of reality:

> Black people are the most likely to experience domestic violence—either male-to-female or female-to-male—followed by Hispanic people and White people.2 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The national intimate partner and sexual violence survey: 2010-2012 state report.

> Asian people are the least likely to experience intimate partner violence.[1]

[1] https://www.verywellmind.com/domestic-violence-varies-by-eth...