You should kick up a major fuss. Call the media. Write a blog post. These companies should not be the moderator of what is socially acceptable.
Rules are made on tiktok, twitter, and in the civil court room. It costs lots of money and is almost never worth it.
Which is why only the big dogs get to play these rules. Apple doesnt care if it burns money on a lawsuit that's stupid. That puts YOU at a huge disadvantage.
IMO payment processors are infrastructure, pseudo public. This amounts to free speech restrictions.