I'm sorry but I've got two EVs and I'm not seeing anything like what you're reporting. On my first set of tires for a model S I got 60k miles which is longer than I usually like to run tires but they were still in good shape. My driving pattern is about 80% grandpa-mode and 20% speeding to loud music.
I assure you. If your EV tires are only lasting 10K miles you have one of the following cases:
- You are driving VERY aggressively
- Your car has an alignment issue or some sort of torque vectoring problem
- Your tires are absolute shit