> What I'm saying is that the typical change to a file shouldn't be committed to my local repo until I indicate that it's ready.

I was extremely hostile to this aspect of jj too, but I've settled on a workflow where @ (i.e. the change/commit referring to the working copy) is always the same, named ".WIP: …", and as such is clearly never supposed to break out of the local system, and can never accidentally get pushed down the log. (..my jj workflow is just blatantly copying my git workflow (with the same-name shell aliases/helpers even), but even with said git emulation I'd say it's nicer than git itself)

Still may be weird/undesired to have the local repo preserve the changes (especially annoying if it happens to find an unignored build artifact, though there is a size limit for automatic tracking by default), but it's also rather neat that you can dig out your old deleted printf debugging or whatnot later on if you wanted to.