It is, in the general case, hard to prove something secure (because it's hard to prove a negative). It might help to show CVEs per month/year/whatever related to it vs anything else, preferably with a clear downward trend. For example, you could look at https://cve.mitre.org/cgi-bin/cvekey.cgi?keyword=io_uring ... although I struggle to read that as supporting the case you want to make.
> I have had to deal with handful of these people from different sectors as well. Since I am actively working on project based on io_uring, I have had people saying all kinds of hmm... "crap", its so baseless! Can't even talk to them with actual facts.
So what are those facts? Because all this thread has is people handwaving that it used to have a worse design, and everything has bugs and this isn't different, and implying that it's better. If it's better, show that.