People who want a particular type of child.
It is a tool, like guns, bombs and medicine.
I'm OK with being alone, that doesn't make me right or wrong.
It does mean I have courage of conviction though.
It's got nothing to do with right or wrong.
Not agreeing with something maybe because of courage, cowardice, nonchalance or anything else.
Openly disagreeing with the in-group cannot be nonchalance, almost by definition (if you don't care, why bother having an opinion?), and it can't be cowardice if the issue matters.