If the CLI allows your domain to connect to it and do arbitrary DB queries, it's definitely not something I could trust. Even if I knew you to be perfectly respectable, your hosting could get hacked and then there would be a pipeline for an attacker to my DB.
It's a reasonable way to do some things, but I definitely feel this cannot be called local-first, since it explicitly allows and expects external domains to connect to it.
The bundle size is no issue whatsoever for a cli tool for devs, it's only really a problem when serving via the internet.