We all wish that everyone who has ever lived in such a situation has had the bravery to resist. Right?
But I don't think that makes forbearance of such resistance equivalent to taking money from that same actor in exchange for expanding its capability. Those are related but distinct types of transaction.
Look, if you believe that:
a) humanity is headed toward sustained peace
b) a transition from the current world order to a peaceful one is better done in an orderly and adult fashion
...then yes, at some point we all need to back away from participation in the legacy systems, right down to the drywall.
My observation, especially of the younger generations, is that belief in such a future is more common than it has ever been, and it's certainly one I hold.
Let me reframe what you said in terms of christianity:
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If you believe that:
a) Jesus is our savior b) The salvation of humanity depends on accepting (a)
...then yes, at some point everyone needs to back away from other religious systems, right down to atheism.
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I'm not trying to make light of what you believe, but framing others' participation in a system you don't believe in as unethical is exactly what leads to oppression of religious minorities and other outsider groups. It's a tactic of religion, not reason.
One would think that this kind of outlook should logically lead to keeping this tech away from applications in which it would be literally making life or death decisions (see also: Israel's use of AI to compile target lists and to justify targeting civilian objects).
We aren't going to stop this march forward, no matter how much it is unpopular it will happen. So, which AI company would you prefer be involved with DOD?
Again, look at what's happening in Gaza right now for a good example of how this all is different from before: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AI-assisted_targeting_in_the_G...