These aren't points; they are (literally) opaque volumes of space, and once their outer limits broach, they have collided.
By analogy, two warships can collide, even though their centers of mass don't.
But there is no matter at an event horizon. That's just an imaginary line in space. It's opaque, but not solid.
If the black holes were moving fast enough, it should be possible for their event horizons to cross and then uncross, although that would immediately raise the question of what would happen to matter in the zone of overlap. Perhaps "fast enough" would exceed the speed of light?
No, that is not possible.
Also most black holes have matter on the event horizon, because something fell on them. Maybe it can even touch, because this matter is frozen slightly above even horizon.
I don't see a way to read your comment that allows for the possibility that a black hole might move, which is something they do.
I'm riiiiiiight on the edge of concluding that you are a poet and the only thing you know about the words is the way they sound. Is there more to it than that?
How black holes can move is an interesting question, but as you can see, in reality there are no infinities, since stuff slows down before that. Maybe infinities could exist for an observer inside black hole, but an observer outside of black hole sees only large slow down.
First define what you mean by "colliding".
By analogy, I'm defining it as the Event Horizons intersecting, at which point nothing in side "either" black hole has any physical meaning to us ever again. For all we know, the insides could be chocolate ice cream on one half of the now-double-sized Event Horizon, and pure neutronium on the other. It's meaningless to even pretend we know anything about that volume.
An event horizon has no mass or other existence and cannot collide with anything. Within the black hole, there is mass somewhere, but generally not at the event horizon. If you're not comfortable assuming that, we can make it a definition - take this to be an example where none of the internal mass lies within the region of overlap.
What is the obstacle to the black holes separating again?
https://www.popularmechanics.com/space/deep-space/a65038572/...