I was unclear, I'm afraid. You can reorder the type parameters, it just changes which of them you need to specify: https://go.dev/play/p/oDIFl3fZiPl
The point is that you can only leave off elements from the end of the list, to have them automatically inferred.
> Are there any real packages out there using these techniques?
I think so far, the usage of generics for containers in Go is still relatively sparse, in public code. I think in part that is because the documentation of how to do that is relatively sparse. That is part of the motivation for the post, to have a bit of somewhat official documentation for these things, so they become more widely known.
The standard library is just starting to add generic containers: https://github.com/golang/go/issues/69559 And part of that is discussing how we want to do things like this: https://github.com/golang/go/issues/70471
That being said, I have used the pointer receiver thing in my dayjob. One example is protobuf. We have a generic helper to set a protobuf enum from the environment. Because of how the API was designed, that required a pointer receiver constraint.