That's the difference between people who give in and people who don't. This is not about "opsec", it's about exercising your fundamental right to privacy. Majority of people are reckless, the ones who take a second to think about it are not
It's interesting how opensource Zulip[1] hasn't been able to garner as much of a following or usage amongst the gamer crowd compared to Discord.
Zulip does not have first-party voice chat. You would be more likely to get gamers to switch to a Teamspeak server.
it's not like people have to "don't give in" all the time...