IMO people freak out about spam way too much. I'd rather have something that works with occasional spam than have to put up with the insanity of modern IM. Having push notifications from 10 proprietary IM apps is worse spam than a couple of emails a day from some retard trying to get me to download a "pdf." I don't block spam at all in my personal email (although I have a couple of tools automatically label it.) I'd rather have everything delivered.
I got spam to postmaster once for some reason. That's a nice way to make admins aware of your spam campaign.
Spam is presumably more of a problem when you're more well-known and you don't have the option to control your own filters.
Other than that it looks like I get like 4 spams per week.
Mind, i don't publish my email anywhere. If you look at my profile on here you'll get a gmail address.
So I would say it's a low priority feature in the backlog.
Or at least via a proxy.
So contact invitation can just be handled with use-once codes (or at least trivially burnable ones).
1. Manually screen who can send you messages like Hey[^1] and Apple[^2]
2. Basic filtering to ensure the promotional stuff gets blocked or put in a separate list [^3]
3. Rate-limit senders who are showing robot like behaviour
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[^1]: https://www.hey.com/features/spam-corps/
[^2]: https://support.apple.com/en-il/guide/iphone/iph203ab0be4/io...
Edit: Also this wasn’t about collecting phone numbers, but about providing one for your business if you host a publically accessible site