> I'm probably the most scolded user on the site, that's still alive, lol.

If you want to feel better, check my comment history. I have also been scolded by mods and senior users here, and I haven’t always handled it well in the moment, to my great shame. The fact that I’m still able to post here is thanks to much gracious hand-holding, patience, and generosity of the mods and legacy users.