In my country we have a phrase for this exact scenario: "the punishment is the process".
When the government or a powerful person wants to fuck with you, all they have to do is drag you endlessly through the court system, even knowing they'll loose. Because the experience will be 100x more painful for you to win than it is for them to loose.
It's what the UK government did to the postal workers in the Fujitsu scandal.
My family members sued each other over a small inheritance. 5 kids fighting over a couple million dollars. Case has dragged out across almost 4 decades. Lawyer fees dwarfed the size of what was being fought over several times over. Some family spent time in jail for contempt of court... Family members then put up all their personal assets to keep fighting. Then they lost and were faced with a judgment that left them destitute well into their retirement years with no way to earn new money. Some family members are still appealing and fighting adjacent court battles (property seizure, etc). This process has consumed the last decades of their lives and everything they worked their whole lives for.
Not only would I say never end up in court, I'll extend you one further. Never get the government involved in your personal relationships.
>Never get the government involved in your personal relationships.
Amen! You can't tax friendship.
IE he can see the peer pool but they don’t announce the peer list.
You made a hypothetical assuming they would do something they wouldn’t because it puts them at risk.
However the important bit isn’t winning in a harassment case but having documentation to get them to stop in the future.
Why do you say that?
I think even seemingly "useless" questions can lead to valuable discussions and insights... and it might also be possible that your perspective is not the only valid one.
What's useful (or not) to one person is not always the same for others.