Yeah, I'm a bit confused if GP is saying their lighters are bad. Every single person I know who uses a lighter many times a day generally uses a Bic[0] - if they're not, it's one of these cheap plastic ones[1], very similar to the pens GP is referring to. A few of them have Zippos, but those are relatively rare among people I know, at least for everyday use.
[0] https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/ae/BI...
[1] https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61TNMUaoFrL.jpg